Success is rarely a straight and narrow path. It’s filled with ups and downs, twists and turns, and it requires us to stand on our toes from time to time. Every great success story has at least one or two defining moments where their entire trajectory is altered by an...
Staving off the Boredom of Success
When I was five, I was convinced I wanted to be a model. As an adult who generally eschews trying on new clothes (thank you internet) or talking to strangers, I find this younger version of myself entirely perplexing. In what world would being a model be even remotely...
Define Your Success or Someone Else Will
Success can be a tricky thing to measure, in large part because the nature of its definition can be so personally complicated. There are outside pressures, extenuating circumstances, weighted expectations, and even social norms attached to how we define success. But...
False Confidence, Education, and The Dunning-Kruger Effect
In 1995 a man named McArthur Wheeler was convinced that lemon juice was not only a good drink mix, but also an invisible ink maker. He was so convinced of that fact that he rubbed it all over his face and went on to rob two banks in Pittsburgh. When the cops reviewed...
Learning to Become Resilient: Part Two
[This is the first part of a two-part series where we’ll walk readers through the different qualities of resilience] Last month we talked about resilience – what it is and how the stuff works. While many people are apt to believe that resilience is a trait,...
False Peaks and Rubik’s Cubes: Why Success Doesn’t Mean Being Perfect
Success is messy. There’s really nothing squeaky clean about it. If you’re the type of person who wants to have all of your ducks in a row before getting started, you’re going to have to bear with us. Perfection is sometimes a worthy idea, but when it comes to...
5 Lessons From Some Pretty Well-known Failures
If there's anything you can count on when hearing a story about someone's rise to fame, it's that they probably failed for more than a couple of years. No matter what industry, sport, or medium, all of the best learned from their own failures as well as the failures...
How to Identify What Matters Most
When our lives get busy, it’s easy to reach for a pencil and pad of paper to try and capture everything that needs to get done. It can almost be therapeutic to cross items off our list, after all. However, check-lists aren’t the best way to go about accomplishing...
Learning to Become Resilient: Part One
[This is the first part of a two-part series where we'll walk readers through the different qualities of resilience] Life isn’t always like a box of chocolates. It’s more like turning the millstone. We’re constantly grinding, battling uphill, getting, bitter, upset,...